Things I'm Loving

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Being 100% truthful here. I'm not the spender in the relationship. Most of the time I will go without in order to save a little coin. My husband, however believes if you are going to spend money then buy the best. We balance each other out. Things I'm loving right now include some freebies. It's a must. Let me know things you are loving right now too.

Jabra 75t Elite

For the longest time, I had earbuds with a cord connecting the two earbuds. Whenever I would workout, the cord would get caught on the back of my neck. It was awkward and uncomfortable.

This Christmas, I asked for a new set of wireless earbuds. My husband, who is a gadget guru, decided to get me the best. Whoa! He picked out a doozy. These earbuds are amazing. My favorite feature so far is the option to have hear-through on or off. If I need to hear the kids while I’m working out, I can. If I go for a walk on a breezy day the noise canceling is amazing. I don’t have to turn the volume up all the way to counter the ambient noise of trucks passing and wind swirling around my head.

If you are looking for new earbuds, these are worth the investment.


Kevin and I decided to start listening to a podcast. We listen to it on our own. Later on, we discuss the podcast. We have been listening to the backlist of Dreaming Big with Bob Goff.

Grant it, Bob does repeat himself a lot during these podcasts, but some people need repetition. I get it. For the most part, it seems like these super successful people have the same insecurities we all possess. They just know how to work through them to reach their goals.

Throughout our marriage, we have reached several crossroads. Choosing one direction over another affected where we are today. We can sense another crossroad on the horizon, and we are taking action to make the decision a positive one for our family.

If you have a dream, listen to Dreaming Big.


Recently we ditched cable and bought a Roku and a modem. I’ll have to give you my thoughts on that when we’ve had it a bit longer.

As a result, I’ve been on the lookout for new channels to follow.

Since I’m a huge book lover, I've been watching PeruseProject. Regan recommends, reviews, and vlogs about books. She mostly focuses on fantasy and sci-fi, but lately she has been branching out to historical fiction and nonfiction sprinkled with a touch of contemporary fiction. If you want book recommendations, check this channel out.

One channel new to me is Rachel Maksy. She explores vintage style, cosplay, and different makeup and hairstyles. I’m not a cosplay kinda gal, but I thoroughly enjoy the vintage themed videos.

As far as art channels, I watch the same ones listed before but have added a few that I love. Frannerd and Leigh Ellexson are down to earth. You feel like the artist's journey is ever-changing but attainable while watching their channels.


I always feel guilty about eating. My metabolism is comparable to giant tortoises. As a result, I like to find snacks that are good for me or at least not going to make regret what I just put in my mouth. Pop Corners white cheddar chips are the best. They aren’t fried which is fantastic, and they taste great. Bonus!

Art Supplies

Windsor and Newton have a travel size watercolor set that's the cutest thing. I've been doing mixed media recently, and this set is perfect for what I need. It blends beautifully. If I ever get up the nerve to paint outside of my house, it’s the perfect on the go size.

I also bought a Master's Touch black paper sketchbook. I’m in love. I might fill this notebook in record time. It’s not great for watercolor painting or colored pencils. But what it lacks in that department it makes up for with gel pens and certain colors of gauche. Whoa!

Have you found anything recently that has changed your life or you can’t live without? Let me know.

Have a great week,


To Be Read List

Welcome to a new year! Last year I read 21 books out of my 17 book goal. If you’re on Goodreads, I’d love to connect.

I have stepped up my reading goal for 2020 to 20 books. My first TBR of the year consists of four books. One I received as a Christmas gift, another with a Christmas gift card, one I already own, and the last is a book from my sister. Let me know if any of these books are on your TBR for 2020.

The House of Salt and Sorrows by Erin A. Craig

If you like fantasy stories that include ghosts and fairy tales you will enjoy The House of Salt and Sorrows. This book is a twist on a fairy tale combined with a murder mystery. Twelve sisters have become eight. The setting is a fictitious island with a large estate on top of massive cliffs overlooking the ocean. Four older sisters have died in various ways. However, something doesn’t seem right about the fourth sister’s death. The sixth sister Annaliegh thinks she may have been murdered. Everyone dismisses her claim, but she doesn’t stop looking into the death of her sister. If you are a fan of murder mysteries and fantasy let me know if you enjoyed this book.

The 7 1/2 deaths of Evelyn Hardcastle by Stuart Turton

As you may have noticed, I’m a big fan of Agatha Christie. Especially, her Hercules Poirot novels. This book is recommended to readers who love Agatha Christie. A woman was murdered but there’s another problem. The person required to solve this murder has to live through different people to gather clues about the crime. Each day he is in a different body and must learn new facts during the investigation. I started this book earlier in 2019 and put it down. It's a book that will require my undivided attention. Last year I read it while reading another book. Big mistake. Hopefully, I will enjoy this book as much as the other murder mysteries I read through so quickly.

The Guernsey Literary and Potato Peel Pie Society by Mary Ann Shaffer and Annie Burrows

Reading wartime historical fiction can be emotionally draining. That’s why I space historical fiction out between fantasy and murder mysteries. My sister recommended this book to me while we were at their house for Christmas. She’s letting me borrow it. It’s set in post World War II in London, and it’s written in a series of letters. This should be a quick read and hopefully one that I will love.

Winter Wood by Shea Ernshaw

Winter Wood is a fairy tale set in a majestic forest. A girl by the name of Nora has been accused of being a witch, but her family has always had a special connection with the forest. After a severe winter storm, a boy was lost but miraculously found alive. Nora has to discover how and why he survived. But the boy does not want his secrets revealed. I can’t wait to start reading this book.

What are your next to be read books? Let me know so I can add more to my list as well.

Happy Reading, 


Favorite Books of 2019

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This year was a reading success. Mostly because my husband started reading fiction. I never thought this day would come. We discuss what we are reading, and it’s refreshing to share something outside of work and the kids. Kevin loves the Jack Reacher series. 

Funny story. We were at Barnes and Noble and the guy helping us with our purchase stated that he liked my choice but wasn’t thrilled with Kevin’s reading choice. I wanted to tell him to shut his mouth. I just got my husband to start reading fiction! Don’t you dare judge his choice. Thankfully, Kevin is not easily deterred when he's made up his mind.

Another success this year was seeing my eldest child’s love of reading explode. They have a reading competition at school. The children that reach 700 reading counts points get a limo ride to pick out a free book from Barnes and Noble. He has over 250 points so far. I love that he sets goals and goes after them wholeheartedly.

On to my favorite books of 2019.

A Thousand Nights by E. K. Johnston

It had been a while since I picked up a fantasy, but I was in the mood for something different. This book intrigued me so I bought it on the spot. It’s different from anything I’ve read. The characters pull at your heart, and you want them to succeed. Stuck in between some of the chapters are a few scenes told by another character. It threw me off the first time. However, you get in the rhythm, and it fits in the story nicely. Give this one a read if you're looking for a fantasy with touches of magic, sisterly love, and love story in the making.

Crooked House by Agatha Christie

If you know me, then you know I love Agatha Christie. She was a master murder mystery storyteller, and this one didn’t disappoint. In the story, a murder has happened at a stately home. The detective is invited to investigate at the request of the granddaughter. Everyone is a suspect. Even the lovely young woman the detective is in love with. It’s a classic who done it that will keep you guessing.

A Fine Imitation by Amber Brock

What is it about the Art Deco period that dazzles? This book was not in my normal reading genre, but the blurb caught my eye. Once I started reading, I didn’t want to put it down. The story is set in New York during the age of the Art Deco period. A socialite's reputation is guarded more than her money. An artist is commissioned to paint a mural in the building. He instantly falls for the main character. The problem is she must decide if she is happy as a socialite or if she wants something daring and with less security.

Hello year of stepping out of my normal genres. I’ve read two of Jenny Colgon's novels and loved them. I’m picky when it comes to contemporary love stories, but this one was perfect. The idea of a story set in a mobile bookshop was perfect for my reading slump. Books, romance, travel,  and new experiences are all wrapped up in this novel.

Serpent and Dove by Shelby Mahurin

Whoa! This book is the definition of opposites attract. A witch and a chasseur are thrown together by unfortunate events. They must marry but hate what the other represents. They must find a way to make the best of their circumstances. I didn’t want to put this book down either. The magic is described beautifully. The struggle to find your true self and let others love you as you are brings a true human element to this book. If you love fantasy with a twisted love story, pick this one up.

Let me know what your favorite books of 2019 were.

Happy reading,


Things I'm Loving Right Now

Did you find products that you love this month? I'm loving these finds. Some have changed my life. That might be a little dramatic, but it's true. Check out my faves for this month, and there are some affiliate links below. 

Essie: Yes I Canyon nail polish
This is the perfect fall color. It looks like pumpkin pie on your nails.

Cusibox 4 Slice Toaster
OK. I know this is a weird one but stick with me. For the last 18 years we have had the same toaster. It worked great, but there was one problem. All three kiddos need breakfast at the same time every morning. It was taking forever to toast everything. So, we bought this beauty. It’s been a life changer in the mornings. The blue is pretty cute too. How did we ever survive with only a two-slot toaster?

Cafe Music BGMC
The house is really quiet during the day while the kids are at school. I was looking for something to play as background noise. I can’t write or draw if there are lyrics. I don’t want to miss anything, so it distracts from my work. Cafe Music has been the solution. Bonus! The kids love to listen while doing their homework and to fall asleep to at night.

No.8 Round brush by Master’s Touch.
It’s a fantastic brush and it holds the water and paint well. This size was recommended by a YouTube illustrator that I watch. I didn’t buy the most expensive brand, but it works beautifully.

Burt’s bees tinted lip balm in Pink Blossom
Once you find a lip balm that moisturizes, you never want to try anything else. I found the one. The color lasts for a while, and it’s pretty. I had to try a couple different colors, but this one is my favorite!

Share your faves below. 


Living in a Tropical Tourist Town

We moved to Naples, Florida, for my husband’s job in the summer of 2017. Moving to a new state for the first time was a challenge, but it was exciting. We loaded up and headed for the lush tropics on the Florida Gulf Coast.

We had dreams of grandeur and hopes of picnics at the beach every weekend.

Ha! Ha! Ha! Let me pause here and compose myself for a moment.

There are pros to living in a tourist town. However, just like everything else there is a down side. You have to decide if the good out weighs the bad. In our case, I would say yes. 

First the Pros
  1. The beach is so close. We don’t live right on the water, but we can drive to the beach and dip our toes in the sand within 20 minutes.
  2. The weather is beautiful during the fall and the winter months. While everyone else is battling arctic blizzards, snow, or nasty cold, we enjoy the perfect weather.
  3. Everything that you can hope for is at your fingertips. There are just as many restaurants to chose from as when we lived in the big city. Naples is growing. With that growth, new eateries are opening. Yum!
  4. For a small town, there is plenty to do. Being a tourist town means keeping tourist entertained. That helps the locals stay busy too. There are museums, libraries, parks, shopping, theaters, street fairs, and something happening year round.
  5. Our allergies have never been better. In Texas, we were on allergy medicine all year long. The kids went from taking four different medications everyday (and breathing treatments with every allergy flair up) to one medication. We don't get sick from allergies nearly as much. Our overall health has improved. 

Now the Cons
  1. We don’t go to the beach nearly as much as we would like. Between the heat of summer, red tide, and the flesh eating bacteria that has plagued the shore, we hardly go anymore.
  2. The weather is a blessing and a curse. Hurricanes are rare but a real threat here. However, the heat and humidity stay during the spring and summer. There are two seasons in Naples. The rainy season and the dry season. They correspond with the snow birds that come down from the north. Rainy season is from May to October. The dry season is from November to April. You must own an umbrella if you live here during rainy season. It’s a part of life, so you get used to it.
  3. The influx of people. Kevin’s commute can double during snow bird season. There is only one freeway in Naples, and it backs up. We were pretty used to traffic coming from DFW. We laughed when people said how bad traffic would be during season. It’s not nearly as bad as a metro area.

    Most of the time we make reservations when the population swells. It insures we get a table during date night. If you are visiting, make reservations or you could be waiting hours to eat.
  4. No one is from here. We moved here. The neighbors moved here. Everyone Kevin works with moved here. We always get asked if we are local or visiting. That’s to be expected. You may have trouble making friends. Everyone has the mindset that they are here for the short term, and their attitude toward each other shows this. Everyone is nice, not Texas nice.
Overall, I enjoy living in Naples. It has been an adjustment. I wish we had a village like we did in Texas, but we are making the best of everything. We don't know how long we will live here, and we are soaking it all in.